A Client, Not a Patient

>A patient asks “What?” A client asks
“Why?”
While a patient is the object of medical care; aBeing a client takes a lot more work. I have to
client is the subject of medical services. Ineducate myself about my condition and
language as in life, an object is passive, a subjecttreatment options. It’s a daunting but
is active.doable task thanks to the Internet. There are
I won’t be able to change theplenty of reputable sites with reliable information
nomenclature of the medical profession but Ithe average person can understand.
refer to myself as a client, not a patient. ByOncologists know a shipload more about
definition, a patient is “One who receiveslymphoma than do its sufferers, but they
medical attention or treatment.” The archaicdon’t know everything. It’s
meaning was “One who suffers,” from theimpossible to keep up with the ocean of new
Latin verb meaning “to endure.” A client oninformation. A dialogue with a well-informed client
the other hand is “The party for whichcould suggest new possibilities to a thoughtful
professional services are rendered.”physician.
Catch the nuance? A patient is the object ofWhen I see Dr. Kurbegov, my oncologist,
medical care; a client is the subject of medicalI’ll ask if radioimmunotherapy is an option
services. In language as in life, an object isfor my type of lymphoma based on an article I
passive, a subject is active.read in the New York Times. I’ll ask about
A patient complies with the experts. A clientany clinical trials for which I might be a candidate,
consults the experts, then follows what seemsespecially those sponsored by the MD Anderson
the best advice.Cancer Center where Dr. Kurbegov was a Chief
A patient might complain but would neverFellow.
contradict an authority. A client will ask questionsI’m not trying to play doctor or impress
and weigh alternatives before deciding.anyone with my research skills. I’m just
A patient goes where sent and does not changetrying to understand my cancer and to be
doctors or clinics. A client tries to find the bestproactive in eradicating it.
physicians and facilities realistically available.