| It's a happens more times than you would think! | | | | guaranteed to have your name thrown around in |
| You're out and about running an errand, minding | | | | the ensuing mayhem. |
| your own business and you bump into a friends | | | | Again, you could end up being the bad guy that |
| husband and he's with someone he's not suppose | | | | the two of them unite against and turn their |
| to be with. Initially he doesn't see you, but you | | | | anger and range onto. So before you go jumping |
| stand and you watch and you observe that the | | | | in doing 'the right thing' ask yourself if you're |
| woman that he's with is clearly more than a | | | | ready to be the fall guy for their woes. |
| friend. Your friends husband is having an affair and | | | | "I Saw Her Husband Cheating" - But it's Not My |
| you are left wondering what you should do next. | | | | Business |
| Your thoughts are, as you sit down with another | | | | Many people faced with what to do after |
| friend later that evening with your own husband, | | | | witnessing something they shouldn't have, take |
| you tell him this: "I saw her husband cheating, | | | | the stance that it isn't their business and they're |
| should I tell her?" | | | | not getting involved. Which is completely |
| Your husband warns you against saying anything, | | | | understandable given what could happen if you tell |
| but the reasons that he lists are valid, but still | | | | the unsuspecting wife. |
| your dilemma prevails and you don't know what | | | | If you decide that you'd rather stay out of it |
| to do for the best. | | | | don't beat yourself up and feel guilty about your |
| Here's some of what your husband might have | | | | decision. You are not responsible for anyone else's |
| said to you: | | | | choices or decisions. |
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| Messenger | | | | Quiet Word With Him? |
| Telling the unsuspecting wife means you could end | | | | For many this is the solution that a lot of people |
| up having both barrels blasted at you from a wife | | | | will opt for. Having a private word with the |
| who is not ready to face what her spouse is up. | | | | cheating husband to warn him that you know and |
| She might have built herself a safe little emotional | | | | that he better fix up and either end the affair or |
| cubby hole where she goes and hides out from | | | | tell his wife, is not a bad strategy to opt for. |
| the reality of her life. Anyone who attempts to | | | | It removes you from the full on fire and wrath of |
| blast her out of that cubby hole, into the reality | | | | the wife, but talking to the cheating husband also |
| of what is actually going on, is going to get it! | | | | makes you feel that you have actually done |
| Plus, ask yourself this, is she going to believe | | | | something! |
| what you're saying to her? Again denial is a | | | | Whatever you decide to do in a dilemma such as |
| powerful tool when you're in a desperate place. | | | | this, make sure that you think really clearly, long |
| "I Saw Her Husband Cheating" - Are You Ready | | | | and hard before you decide to do what you |
| For the Mayhem? | | | | consider 'the right thing!' What you saw or think |
| If you do tell her and she confronts him with | | | | you saw, might suddenly not be so black and |
| what she's discover, you're pretty much | | | | white! |