Straight Talk From a Person Who Lived a Second Life

What makes you angry, or upset?brother accompanied , prayed and supported me.
I am a cancer survivor, and people all praise meUntil I awoke, did the staff nurse tell the the
saying that I have a very strong will to live. But,story at night during my routine vitamin injections.
they do not know, how hurt and sad I am inside,Many times, the television only shows the end
I would remain quiet, and my true feelings areresult. However, not too many people knows
hidden behind a smiling 'mask'.about the entire process.
I had an insensitive and unapproachable father.
I lived on, as laughter is the BEST medicine
Mommy is going on a vacation, without me.In all situations, I consider the impact on my
I love my mother; she was with me, beside mefamily, and my friends; in summary; the people
and always there for me.around me. I remember the times I spent with
I remember the dark days, months when I wasmy brother laughing so hard that my stomach
fighting the effects of cancer treatment. Survivalmuscles actually went sore!
was my main focus at that time.My brother, settled my mind. His name is Perry
I would always remember my mother face whenLai , he is a very committed person to his life
she was putting up a strong front to make meobjectives, and he has progressed so far from
feel hopeful of the coming major operations Iwhere he was, before his life decision was made.
was to go through.
Many people thought that I will not survive anyLight at the end of the tunnel
operations as I had two tumors, one on my head,I have made it, and survived the cancer illness,
and another just behind my brain stem in thecompleted therapeutic treatments and lived for
neck area.more than five years. However, I admit, I had
I am tearing a little as I type this article out asnever got a real understanding of my father;
the sour feelings in my heart are poured out andneither did I make myself heard on the stage of
for all to see. I may seem like a very strongthe whole 'non- immediate' family.
person who has everything in my life. However,
this is not the reality.My New Objective: FINANCIAL FREEDOM
There are so many things to balance in life, that IThe simple reason is the issue of competitiveness,
always wanted to break away from, yet, onlyconcerning education level and accomplishments. I
my mother somehow understands the pain andhave made none, in the eyes of the 'non-
bitterness I have, despite the "Happy family"immediate' family. Laughter is the best medicine!
outlook people have when they see my motherI TOLD MY BROTHER I WANTED FREEDOM,
and I together.FINANCIAL FREEDOM.
Likewise, you need a new focus in life, to live on
Comawith a purpose!
Despite being unconscious, my mother and